Love me slow...BUT hard

Expectation:

    "I want to make love to you." He starts kissing slowly, making sure you get your sweet spot warm and slippery, cause you both will enjoy it more that way. Neck kisses, touching and caressing your body until you get chills. Since you were spooning, he's kissing you from behind. Targeting your neck which he knows is your weak spot. Your body gets goosebumps and he slowly slides his hand into your panties.

    "Baby, you're ready," he says. You just moan in response and that is his cue to start taking your clothes off. As soon as everything is off, he slides a condom on and slowly inserts his manhood in you. His thrusts are slow and gentle all the way and you love the way he loves you. Then out of nowhere you feel that familiar sensation which drives you crazy and you feel his erection pulsing meaning his done too.

Reality:

    "I want to make love to you." Ohhh heck yes! I just thought we were gonna talk, watch movies, eat and that's it. But I guess he had something else in his mind. This boy better give it to me good, he better give it to me REAL good. He starts kissing me and I answer him with feverish kisses. He just laughs because he knows I want it as much as he does. He tries to slow me down so I guess he really does want to make love. Okay...I guess I can use some slow action in my life. He slides his hand into my underwear and caresses IT gently. Fuck! too gentle. "Boy! your better get this going ASAP," I think but don't say because I am NOT trying to ruin the mood. But damn I've been wanting that D!%K inside me since a week ago.
     We start doing the nasty but damn he really seems like he wants to do me slow. Fuck my life, NO! Fuck the life out of me, rather. He thrusting slow, he's really taking his time to take his penis out of my hot vagina. It's frustrating but kind of hot. It's like that type of sex when you are getting fucking annoyed but you really like it, low-key. BUT I mean come on, give me a little something to cum with.
      "Do you want to hit from the back?"
       Honestly, I can say guys love these words. To hit it and see it bounce back, yup. Even I love it.
       So he quickly changed positions and uuufff I loved it. He started but since my ass was up and my chest was down I said, "harder" and damn did that boy hit it hard. I had to hold on to a pillow, the mattress, the sheets, for dear life. "You want it hard, I'll fuck you hard."
         I swear I thought my cooch could take it any longer and then I noticed that my guts were getting hit too. DAMN my boy was going HAM and I loved it. I came seconds before he did and then we both crashed on the bed.

      That phrase can either turn you on or make you feel butterflies in your stomach. To me, it does both. But with all honesty rough sex is great. I don't mean like crazy, hardcore, rough sex, but at least some good "pull my hair" or "choke me" kind of sex.
      You'll only know what I mean until you try it, that's if you haven't already. Yes, I'm only 19 but I love me some good sex. Just try it and you'll understand what I'm saying. And remember, just have fun, relax and enjoy. 😉

Cum On Now

I remember the first time I had an orgasm while having sex. It felt like...super good. I wanted that moment to be endless. That's not bad but it's not good. I mean society now-a-days think having too much sex is bad, but if you are responsible and use condoms to prevent STDs or pregnancy, is it still bad? Oh well that's another topic, my point is, it took me a quite many times of sexual encounters with the same person, don't judge me, to finally have a damn orgasm. But when I did, oh gosh I loved it. Moans, goosebumps, everything!! It was great.

Expectation:

The dude is going at it. He's been thrusting for 5 minutes and you're extremely turned on. He starts kissing your neck and that drives you crazy. You're thinking, "damn boy, don't you stop doing that." The best part is the the notices you like it so he keeps doing it. And then he says, " I'm gunna cum baby," so he starts going faster. As soon as he repeats it, he cums and you do too. How amazing, you both have an orgasm at the same time.

Reality:

BULLSHIT!


I wish I could come up with a scenario which can describe that THAT doesn't always happen. But I can't. From what I've been through either the girl cums first, multiple times or maybe just once, or the guy cums and sex is over.

It's not like a girl can have an orgasm super fast, I mean sometimes we do, but a lot of times we have to work on it. You know, stimulate the clit, or the boobs, or bite the ears or maybe the shoulders. Every girl is different. Girls like different things just like guys do. We just have to know our body in order to know what we like and when we like it. For example, I like my shoulders to have a bit, well actually a lot of attention. Crazy, but yes. Kisses on the neck drive me crazy. Sorry if this is too much information, but that's my 'weakness' if you want to call it that way. I always tell or rather show my partner what I like because I want to have a good time too. Sex isn't just suppose to please one person. Shit, if I'm going to receive action, I will make the best of it. You can't be shy once you're at it if you want to enjoy.

Communication is key. When you are having sex, don't be that quiet person, please. Talk dirty and make it seem like you're actually enjoying it. Tell them how you like it with a, "just like that" or "yes, baby."

Shit, I don't know. Be creative. Your partner and you have to communicate in order to have a great time together. And remember, just have fun, relax and enjoy. 😉

1st time Kill'a

EXPECTATION:

         A bed with white sheets full of red rose petals and candles all around the room. The petals form a heart or maybe they spell out "I love you." It's your first time, so your significant other was considerate and decided to make this night a special night, because I mean, this is THE night. He comes from behind you and starts whispering how beautiful you are and how much he loves you. You start feeling... something. Then, the good stuff begins. He is sweet and you love it. He's driving you crazy for making you wait but you low-key dig it. Out of nowhere you hear a wrapper open, yes! he's being responsible. Now the time has come. He slowly inserts his...thing inside. How nice of him, slowly but surely. 

REALITY:

      You finally feel ready. This guy has been with you for quite a while plus, you've felt a tingly feeling every time you guys make out and you just don't know if you can hold back any longer. He invited you to his house because his parents aren't around, should you wait until he makes a move or should you just do it. DAMN IT! why is he taking forever in the restroom? Is he thinking the same thing? Boy! you better hurry up! Oh okay, he's back.

 

       "So what do you want to do?" he asks. Uhm.. you. I want to do you. "I don't know, what ever you want" you say instead. Then, like if you both were thinking the same thing, he starts kissing you. But this time it's different. You feel something change in the air and, oh, he took his shirt off. Ohhh...okay. He took off everything in less than 10 minutes while still kissing you. Alright. You hear the condom wrapper open and just want him to get it over with. He puts it in slowly, but then he puts it in all the way and damn it hurts like a bitch. But you're not going to cry because mom raised no bitch. After a minute it starts feeling different. Good different and you don't want it to stop. You start getting this feeling in your stomach and its building...and oh damn you're close. "Why'd you stop?" you ask. "I came" he says.

       No, just for clarification, that is not how my first time was. It wasn't romantic nor...unromantic. It was just, sex. Nothing too fancy, but yes completely disappointing. I was so naive to think it was going to be full of flowers and all but it wasn't. Oh well. It happened. That's that. On to the next session or should I say person. 

       I'm just messing with you all. On a different note, you will never forget the first time you gave yourself to someone. Unless you were drunk and licked. Licked is an expression my friend used to describe a person drunk AF. And i don't really know if people ever remember EVERYTHING they do when they're at that level of drunk. As I was saying, your first time may or may not be what you expect. I bet we all wished our first time was cute and romantic, or maybe you're freaky and wish it was rough and loud. My point is, expect the unexpected. I've always said the best things are unplanned. So maybe the first time isn't too good but there will be something about the time which will make it unforgettable. In my opinion, just have fun, relax, and enjoy. 😉