Cum On Now

I remember the first time I had an orgasm while having sex. It felt like...super good. I wanted that moment to be endless. That's not bad but it's not good. I mean society now-a-days think having too much sex is bad, but if you are responsible and use condoms to prevent STDs or pregnancy, is it still bad? Oh well that's another topic, my point is, it took me a quite many times of sexual encounters with the same person, don't judge me, to finally have a damn orgasm. But when I did, oh gosh I loved it. Moans, goosebumps, everything!! It was great.

Expectation:

The dude is going at it. He's been thrusting for 5 minutes and you're extremely turned on. He starts kissing your neck and that drives you crazy. You're thinking, "damn boy, don't you stop doing that." The best part is the the notices you like it so he keeps doing it. And then he says, " I'm gunna cum baby," so he starts going faster. As soon as he repeats it, he cums and you do too. How amazing, you both have an orgasm at the same time.

Reality:

BULLSHIT!


I wish I could come up with a scenario which can describe that THAT doesn't always happen. But I can't. From what I've been through either the girl cums first, multiple times or maybe just once, or the guy cums and sex is over.

It's not like a girl can have an orgasm super fast, I mean sometimes we do, but a lot of times we have to work on it. You know, stimulate the clit, or the boobs, or bite the ears or maybe the shoulders. Every girl is different. Girls like different things just like guys do. We just have to know our body in order to know what we like and when we like it. For example, I like my shoulders to have a bit, well actually a lot of attention. Crazy, but yes. Kisses on the neck drive me crazy. Sorry if this is too much information, but that's my 'weakness' if you want to call it that way. I always tell or rather show my partner what I like because I want to have a good time too. Sex isn't just suppose to please one person. Shit, if I'm going to receive action, I will make the best of it. You can't be shy once you're at it if you want to enjoy.

Communication is key. When you are having sex, don't be that quiet person, please. Talk dirty and make it seem like you're actually enjoying it. Tell them how you like it with a, "just like that" or "yes, baby."

Shit, I don't know. Be creative. Your partner and you have to communicate in order to have a great time together. And remember, just have fun, relax and enjoy. 😉